Do you need a roadmap to divorce? Whether you’re contemplating a divorce, have already started the process, or are far into the proceedings, having the inside scoop on how to save money, time and emotional energy on your divorce is invaluable.
We’re here for you. We help you consider your options, empower you with practical information, and strategize with you how to navigate your divorce.
We help you move onto the next chapter of your life.
Our strategic preparation helps you understand the process of divorce. Our guidance is holistic, allowing you to live your life AND plan for your future.
We are committed to help divorcing couples avoid court, preserve civility, and reach informed, amicable agreements.
We help you understand your finances, so you enter mediation with clarity and confidence. Planning is key; our clients never agree to anything they don’t fully understand.
Maximize the time you spend with your attorney. Provide your attorney with your goals which enables them to advocate for you. We help our clients plan for life after divorce, ensuring they are set up for success.
We work with you to create a custom parenting plan– a “new normal” for your family, while maintaining stability, structure, and creating new family traditions.
We help you manage the details required during the process of divorce– financial overwhelm, coparenting challenges, communicating with your legal counsel, understanding life post-divorce, and beyond.
No one enters a marriage intending for it to end.
At Divorce Strategies Northwest, we offer a thoughtful, efficient approach to divorce. By reducing unnecessary attorney involvement, our clients save time and money while minimizing emotional and financial stress. We focus on practical solutions that protect families, reduce conflict, and support a smoother transition.
Clients choose DSNW because they want dedicated support from a team of experienced professionals who provide guidance and resources that empower them to make informed decisions throughout the divorce process.
DSNW’s approach is designed to support you:
As a seasoned team with expertise in every aspect of divorce, we empower you with a clear understanding of the process, deliver strategic guidance, and provide knowledgeable, practical advice. Our goal is to help you and your family reach lasting, creative, and well-structured agreements—without resorting to adversarial or costly litigation.
We work with discretion, flexibility, and strategic experience to support you in making thoughtful, informed decisions about your family and your future—all in a collaborative, respectful, and cost-effective environment.
You divorce a different person than you marry.
Our team of professionals at Divorce Strategies Northwest understands the complexity, fear, stress, and confusion that the process of divorce entails. You’re thrust into a crash course you never hoped to take!
Our team will help you consider your options and develop a strategy that encompasses your personal and family needs, now and in the future. We offer our clients personal, scalable services, for less than one-quarter of most attorney billing rates. With our experience, you will be empowered with knowledge, understand your case and the divorce process, and how to advocate for yourself.
At DSNW we understand that divorce is about people and families. Divorce is about your emotions, your wants and needs, and in many ways will define your future for years to come. There is far more to a successful divorce than working with an attorney. Our team approaches to divorce in a holistic way… we are compassionate partners to help educate you through the process of divorce.
Individual: If you are considering or facing divorce and feel alone, scared, stuck, or unsure of how to proceed, we can provide you with strategic guidance + compassionate support.
Couple: If you want to work cooperatively with a team of experts, we can help.
You can find more information on our services options HERE.
We are a team of divorce experts who specialize in mediation, life and divorce coaching, parent coaching, client advocacy and financial aspects of your dissolution case.
For individuals in high-conflict situations, an attorney is essential to provide the legal support required for a contentious case. However, working with our team can minimize attorney hours by helping you work more efficiently and effectively with your legal team.
Our work with couples in our Conscious Uncoupling package reduces attorney time and legal fees even more. When working with couples, our team handles the preparation, negotiation and drafting of all the legal documentation necessary for your divorce. We partner with local attorneys for expert review prior to legal filing of all case documentation.
Many of our clients come to DSNW via a recommendation from their therapist. Our service is a great option between personal therapy, marital counseling and hiring a divorce attorney. We do not provide therapy; we provide divorce coaching services to help clients understand what they want and need, during their divorce and beyond. We often refer clients to talented therapists (in a variety of modalities + specialties), to do the intense emotional work that is often required during a divorce.
We work with both individuals and couples who are either considering divorce or ready to proceed with the divorce process. For couples, we offer our Conscious Uncoupling package which focuses on coaching + mediation services. For individuals, we offer our Breaking Free package which includes coaching, strategy development and legal document drafting services.
Most clients find it advantageous to speak with our team prior to hiring an attorney. We do not replace a divorce attorney; we minimize their time and augment their expertise with our focused support + preparation. Family Law attorneys are experts at Family Law.
While attorneys are experts at interpreting and applying the law to your case, most are not well-equipped to provide emotional support and detailed guidance needed as families impart major changes. Because we bill at a lower hourly rate, our prep work helps clients come into the attorney process more organized and well-prepared, with much of the “homework” done in advance.
Couples who choose to work within our guided mediation process minimize their attorney time to only a few hours for final legal review. Our goal is to keep our clients and their families away from Family Court. This means you and your spouse are making decisions for your family, not the state (court), and not dueling attorneys. Our team works with you to educate both parties and confidentially bring your case to private resolution.
We can work with you on an hourly basis to provide you with coaching and strategy development. Our Strategy on Demand service works alongside your attorney to provide extra guidance and support as needed. See Our Services for more information about what is provided with Strategy on Demand.
Our process of support is similar when working with individuals and with couples. We start with an extensive introductory meeting with each client individually, to clearly understand their priorities, goals, concerns and identify any potential obstacles. From there, our team will develop a personalized plan + recommendation for our work together.
Next, we work with clients to collect and organize their financial details. Once we have gathered the necessary financial data, we carefully draft a variety of scenarios for strategically dividing the assets in a fair and equitable way. We utilize experts for valuations as needed, we help you understand your rights, and we help you stay organized, focused, and on task along the way.
If you have minor children, we lead you in drafting a detailed parenting plan for your family. We help you understand how to co-parent and communicate effectively, share expenses and support your children now and in the future. We provide guidance, emotional support and a sounding board, detailed information and important education throughout the process.
We are accessible and available when you need us. Additionally, working with our team will give you tools to keep your relationships more intact, with both family and friends. A litigated divorce causes people to “take sides”. Our approach is more collaborative. We provide training for post-divorce communication with your former spouse, adult children and other sensitive areas. We set you up for success.
Depending on the details of your case, legal fees can vary widely. Much of the legal cost variables depend on the complexity of asset division and how contentious your separation has become. Without strategic input + preparation, attorney fees can swallow hundreds of thousands of dollars and years of your life.
Working with our team prior to hiring an attorney is a healthy way to take charge of your situation, become educated about the process of dissolution, and ultimately pay less in legal fees. Because we work with you to prepare in advance, the time spent with your attorney is maximized, making the most of your time and attorneys’ fees.
Another cost-saving measure is to select the very best attorney for your case. We work with our clients to help them find the most experienced, cost-effective attorney for their case.
The average cost for a divorce in Washington State is $28,000 per person (not per case). Working with DSNW, our clients save over 80% on legal fees.
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At Divorce Strategies NW, we are committed to preserving civility in divorce by providing expert guidance, compassionate support, and strategic financial planning. Our greatest compliment is the trust and referrals we receive from our clients and the therapists we work alongside. The experiences shared below highlight the positive impact of our approach in supporting individuals, couples, and families throughout the divorce process.
